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Catholic Wedding Program Wording

What to print on the cover, in the order of liturgical ceremony, on the wedding party page, and in the back cover closing note, with specimens you can copy and adapt, for a nuptial Mass or a marriage service without one.

Page one

The front cover

Four things, in this order: what is being celebrated, who is being married, when, and where. Everything else belongs inside.

Nuptial Mass

The Nuptial Mass Uniting
Mary Katherine Doyle
and
James Peter Sullivan
Saturday, June 12, 2026
Church of Saint Agnes
Saint Paul, Minnesota
Dates are traditionally spelled out on the cover but can be written in text/figures combination. Both names appear in full, without titles.

Traditional Latin Mass

The Solemn Nuptial Mass
Celebrating The Union Of
Maria Catherina Doyle
and
Jacobus Petrus Sullivan
The Twelfth Day of June, MMXXVII
Church of Saint Agnes
Saint Paul, Minnesota
A Latin Mass booklet often carries a Latin invocation on the cover. Keep the names in the form the guests know them by.
A Note on the cover Title
“The Nuptial Mass Uniting” tells a guest there will be a Mass; “The Sacrament of Holy Matrimony” tells them there will not. In the Traditional Latin Mass, "The Marriage Service" comes before the Nuptial Mass, and hence the title always begins with that. These wordings convey significant meanings, so choose the correct one, because guests use it to decide whether to expect Communion.
The heart of it

The order of liturgucal ceremony

This is the page guests actually read during the ceremony. It should be a list of what happens, in sequence, with details next to each item.

Ordinary Form (Novus Ordo)

Prelude
Processional
Introductory Rites
Greeting · Gloria · Collect
Liturgy of the Word
First Reading - Genesis 2:18–24
Responsorial Psalm - Psalm 128
Second Reading - 1 Corinthians 12:31-13:8a
Gospel Acclamation - Gospel · Homily
The Rite of Matrimony
Address · Questions Before the Consent
The Consent · Blessing of Rings · Exchange of Rings
Universal Prayer
Liturgy of the Eucharist
Offertory · Sanctus · Canon of the Mass
The Lord's Prayer · Nuptial Blessing
Agnus Dei · Communion · Marian Bouquet Presentation
Concluding Rites
Final Blessing · Dismissal
Citations come from the Lectionary options for Matrimony; all of them are listed in the readings guide.

Extraordinary Form - TLM (1962 Missal)

Prelude
Processionals
Veni Creator Spiritus
The Rite of Marriage
Exhortation · Mutual Consent · Marital Vows
Blessing of Rings · Exhange of Rings
Sprinkiling of Water · Final Prayer
Mass of the Catechumens
Introit · Deus Israel
Kyrie · Gloria
Epistle - Ephesians 5:22–33
Gradual - Uxor Tua · Alleluia - Mitat Vobis
Gospel - Matthew 19:3–6 · Homily
Mass of the Faithful
Offertory - In Te Speravi Domine
Sanctus · Canon · Pater Noster
The Nuptial Blessing
Communion - Ecce Sic Benedicetur
Final Blessing · Last Gospel
Marian Presentation · Te Deum Laudamus
In the older form the marriage service is celebrated before the Mass begins, and the Propers are fixed. The Latin Mass guide sets out the whole order.

Two conventions make the difference between a program guests follow and one they fold up. We designed our templates so that guests can follow the service or Mass as it happens, hence the music scores. Print the readings or music selections against the moment they happen, not in a separate list at the back or in the middle; a guest wondering what the choir is singing or what the minister is reading will not turn the page to find out.

The full order of both forms, side by side, is set out in the liturgical guide.

Naming conventions

Sacred ministers and the wedding party

Two lists, kept apart. The ministers page is formal and uses titles; the wedding party page is warm and uses roles.

Sacred ministers

Bishop
The Most Reverend Michael J. Byrne
Monsignor
The Rev. Monsignor Thomas Reilly
Priest
The Rev. [Fr.] Michael J. Byrne
Deacon
The Rev. Thomas Reilly
Subdeacon
The Rev. Tom O'Reilly
Clergy take their full style: “The Reverend or Rev. Fr.” for a priest, "The Rev." for a deacon, “The Reverend Monsignor”, “The Most Reverend” for a bishop.

Wedding party

Maid of Honour
Sarah Doyle, sister of the bride
Best Man
Daniel Sullivan, brother of the groom
Bridesmaids
Grace Lynch · Emily Ward · Rose Kavanagh
Groomsmen
Patrick Nolan · Andrew Hayes · Luke Brennan
Flower Girl & Ring Bearer
Nora Sullivan · Thomas Doyle
A short relationship after a name, "sister of the bride", is the detail guests appreciate most and the one most often left out.
Parents of the couple
Listed together on the wedding party page. Where a parent has died, name them here and mark them in the memorial rather than omitting them.
Ushers
Named after the groomsmen if they are distinct people; folded into the groomsmen list if they are not.
Musicians
Organist, cantor, soloist, string players and choir, by role. A hired ensemble is credited by its name.
Gift bearers
A nuptial Mass in the ordinary form has an offertory procession; naming the bearers is a courtesy and tells them where to look.
For the congregation

Responses, and telling guests what to do

A Catholic nuptial Mass usually has guests who are not Catholic. Adding "Standing, Sitting, Kneeling" instructions to the booklet is what stops them guessing. We have those stated wherever it is needed.

Common responses

English
The Lord be with you.
And with your spirit.
Lift up your hearts.
We lift them up to the Lord.
Let us give thanks to the Lord our God.
It is meet and just.
Latin
℣. Dóminus vobíscum.
℟. Et cum spíritu tuo.
℣. Sursum corda.
℟. Habémus ad Dóminum.
℣. Grátias agámus Dómino Deo nostro.
℟. Dignum et justum est.
The celebrant or priest’s line starts with a "℣"; the people’s response line starts with an "℟". Guests learn the pattern within two exchanges.

Rubrics that guests can act on

Please stand
Entrance and Procession
Stand
Singing of the Gloria
Please be seated
Reading of Epistles
Please kneel
Canon of the Mass
All who are able may kneel
Reception of the Communion
Short, in italic, in the accent colour, and always immediately above the thing they refer to.
The note about Communion
Most nuptial Mass booklets carry a short paragraph explaining that Communion is received by Catholics in a state of grace on the tongue, and precisely letting everyone else who can't receive Communion, either for not being Catholic, or Christian, to remain and pray. Every template includes this particular comment before the Communion of the Faithful.
The last page

Memorial and thank-you

Two short blocks, and the tone of the whole booklet turns on them.

In loving memory

In Loving Memory
Margaret Doyle
Sean Patrick Sullivan
Whom we hold in our hearts today,
and for whom we ask your prayers.
Names only, no dates. A request for prayers is the Catholic form, and it is what the deceased would have wanted asked.

In Appreciation ( A Word of Thanks)

With Gratitude
To our parents, who gave us the faith we profess today;
to Father Byrne, who prepared us for this sacrament;
and to all of you, who travelled to pray with us.
Mary and James
Sign it with couple's first names. We included a sample copy of the note for reference at the back of every booklet. The formality of the cover has done its work by this page.
Common Mistakes

What often goes wrong and what to avoid

Calling it the wrong thing

A wedding with a Mass is a Nuptial Mass; one without is the Marriage Service (Latin Mass) and the Sacrament of Holy Matrimony or a Wedding Ceremony (Novus Ordo).

Deceased parents in the party list

Naming a late parent among the living reads as an error to everyone who knows. Put them in the memorial and ask for prayers.

A wall of unbroken text

The order of liturgical ceremony is a list. Set as prose, it cannot be followed by someone who has just looked up from the aisle.

Music hidden at the back

Print each music selection against the moment it happens or the page number, if a supplementary hymn book is available in the pews. A separate credits page answers a question nobody is asking.

A page count that is not a multiple of four

Each folded sheet makes four pages. Anything else gets padded with blanks by the printer, usually in the wrong place. The total number of pages in all our templates are in multiples of four to address this problem

Nobody proofread the names

It's important to get the names of people written correctly. Have someone from each family check the names for spelling. Name typos can be an error that survives into the photographs.

When the wording is settled, the printing guide covers the rest: imposition, paper stock, and the printer settings that decide whether the fold lands where it should.

Questions

Questions couples ask

What should a Catholic wedding program and mass booklet include?

A cover with the correct title, couple's full names, the date and the church; the order of liturgical ceremony; the names of the sacred ministers and the wedding party; the readings and music; and a closing note of thanks. A nuptial Mass booklet adds the text of the propers and ordinaries and responses of the Mass itself, so guests can participate rather than watch.

How do you word the cover of a Catholic wedding program/booklet?

Convention is a line naming the celebration, "The Marriage Service and the Nuptial High Mass Celebrating The Union Of", "The Nuptial Mass Uniting" or "The Sacrament of Holy Matrimony", then both names, then the date and the church with its city. Many of our templates include cover photos or monograms to add beauty to the design. Titles and honorifics are usually dropped on the cover and kept for the ministers page.

Whose names go in a Catholic wedding program?

The couple, the celebrant and any concelebrants, the deacon, the subdeacon, the servers, the readers, the organists and choir, the parents of both, and the wedding party by role: maid of honour, best man, bridesmaids, groomsmen, ushers, ring bearer, flower girl, and wedding coordinators. Deceased relatives are remembered in a separate memorial line rather than in the party list.

Do you print the responses in a Catholic wedding program?

The wedding program does not need responses; a Mass booklet does. A program comprises the Cover, the order of liturgical ceremony, the wedding party, and the thank-you back cover. Whereas the nuptial Mass booklet contains the wedding program in addition to the texts of the Propers and Ordinaries of the Mass. The celebrant or priest’s line starts with a "℣"; the people’s response line starts with an "℟". For the Novus Ordo templates, we print the congregation’s parts in bold and the presider’s parts in regular weight, and mark them "Priest:" and "People:" so guests who are not Catholic know when a line belongs to them.

How do you word a memorial in a wedding program?

A short line under a heading such as "In Loving Memory" naming those who have died, often with the phrase "who are present with us in spirit today" or a request for prayers. Keep it separate from the wedding party list so it reads as a remembrance.

How long should a wedding program be?

A program-only booklet runs four (4) pages. A full nuptial Mass booklet with the order of the Mass, the responses, and the music scores usually runs 20 to 44 pages. Booklet pages come in multiples of four, because each folded sheet makes four pages.

Start with the wording already in place

Every template ships with this wording set correctly. You replace the names and the details; the conventions and layout are already handled.

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